It is a long trip from Washington DC to Tehran. I flew fromWashington Dulles airport at 10:10 pm to Paris . When we land to Charles de Gaule airport, it was a long wait until I will able to take the bus to the terminal C. Then we have to wait another long line to get to the shuttle that drives us to terminal A. Once arrived at my gate, I went through security. The terminal was extremely hot. Many people were using their boarding pass to vent themselves, one complained about how unequipped this international airport was, other about how stingy French are because they don’t want to spent money to have air conditioning in such place where there are lots of people. The real reason about the poor climatization was not clear. As a result the few hours that I have spent there was very uncomfortable, plus the space dedicated to the transit was very limited.
Then we have to wait a long line to get to the plane. I preferred to sit down and wait I thought anyway the plane is not going to leave without me. So while I was waiting, I saw a familiar face: Ali. He was our neighbors for many years before I left Iran. I thought how the coincidences of life are, seeing him in Paris after 12 years. He was taking the same plane and was getting back to Iran. Life is full of surprises!
The flight had some delays, and we finally took off 30 minutes after the scheduled time.
Next to me was a young man, it looked a little strange, and I felt not at ease. I initiate the conversation with him. He was newly graduate mechanical engineer student who came to Paris for business. He was interesting talk to because I was getting another perspective of how life it is in Iran for an educated person who has a good job. His concerns were about difficulty of saving money, the impossibility to leave independently from the parents, and most of all to reach an upper level of carrier ladder. He was saying that at certain point the job becomes a repetition and there is no room for progress. Apparently, he was very pleased with the life that couples of his friends were able to have in France, they live in a slower pace, he said.
I believe the young generation has a "trompe oeil image" of the West. They see it as a “perfect world” where everything is being take care of. Indeed there are many opportunities for every single individual, but they don’t realize that the responsibility that comes with it and that you have to work hard for it. As the motto is “ nothing is free.”
I think the best part of the living in the State is that you can have everything according to the income that you have. You can have a house, a car, going out or any “object” that you want. For instance, there is disposable digital camera. I think it is a good idea for the people who cannot afford a Digital Camera and want to capture some special moments. In Iran, either you have a good digital camera or you don’t have it, you have enough cash to purchase a house or to don’t have a house. It is in fact a binary system: have or don't have.
I arrived at 9:00 pm at Mehrabad. We have to put the islamic hejab, a long shirt with a veil. The airport was cool.With 2500 tomas someone will help you to carry your suitcases. At the custom, there were two lines, red and green. Most of the people were going through the green one . They don’t open up the luggage they just pass them under the scanning machine.
My sister and aunt were waiting for me. Mom, Dad and my nephew were home. When we arrived home the semi final of the world cup soccer Germany against Italy had just started.
I was very happy to see them, Mom was a little sick and exhausted from all the work of moving to the new house, Dad looks older and smaller that last year.
We watched the match and we were for the Italian team except for my aunt. Italy won the last 3 minutes of the game 2 to O. We were happy and clapping and screaming. My aunt was the sad one!
My parent apartment is really beautiful, very spacious and lots of lights from the large windows, and huge balconies. Mom is content to have the terrace and a patio for her plants. The house looks gorgeous, well decorated. I really like it. One side is a large bookshelf and the other side has the view of the patio.
It is 7:37 Washington’s time 3: 30 am local time, and I cannot sleep. It always takes me a week to get over the jet lag!. I better try to sleep now.